Stephanie
I was always unsuitable: too young, too old, too simple, too inexperienced, too shy, not enough. Or perhaps, I was simply different, different from what someone else expected.
Adinah
I have felt inadequate many times, but the most embarrassing episode I remember was when I began to laugh uncontrollably at an exhibition in a museum.
Mary
I felt inadequate in an unrequited love, in a situation where who I was was undervalued, this paradoxically helped me to love myself more and see in my unsuitability one of my strengths.
